I've investigated this issue further and it turns out that this is a bug/limitation in the JDK. What's happening is that when you're disabling some of the remote desktop properties, Windows is forcing a "Look & Feel" change because some of the properties required by your selected "Look & Feel" are not supported in your remote desktop session. Java cannot handle changing the "Look & Feel" dynamically-- and hence the app stops repainting. 

 

Here are some links for reference:

http://bugs.sun.com/view_bug.do?bug_id=6588271

https://netbeans.org/bugzilla/show_bug.cgi?id=198678

 

My suggestion would be to narrow down which set of "Experience" options in your case cause the issue. There's probably a couple that are needed in order for you to not get this exception. Then see if your bandwidth is sufficient to make it usable.

 

The other suggestion is to switch the "Classic" look and feel in Aqua Data Studio.